Do you think The Rules is manipulative or too much game-playing?
You are right. It is a game… And the name of the game is, “How much do you like yourself?” This is called self-esteem.
If it’s hard for you to do The Rules, then let me ask you this, “Is it hard to love yourself?”
The Rules is all about having a long-term game strategy. This isn’t just about getting dates for Saturday night. It’s for the rest of your life.
The Rules Book says, “Rule #34: Love only those who love you.”
By Law of Attraction, you date at the level of your self-esteem.
Understand that your self-esteem is not fixed. It is something that fluctuates from moment to moment depending on how you make decisions daily.
The degree to how much self-awareness, self-control, and self-discipline you have is the level of your self-esteem. They are directly related. You cannot separate them.
Without self-esteem, it is not possible for you to have a happy, healthy, long-term relationship with anyone else.
The most important relationship is the one with yourself.
When you love yourself, your taste in men will change. What does that look like?
These are “Kim’s Rules” for lasting success in relationships:
You take care of yourself, your health and well-being.
You take 100% responsibility for your own happiness.
You eat right, exercise and live a full, happy life.
You do things that make you feel good and are good for you.
You don’t call or chase men.
You make decisions with your head, not just with your heart.
You don’t beg or grovel for someone to love you.
You don’t pine after a guy who doesn’t want you.
You know you are a unique and amazing woman. Any man is lucky to have you!
You are not interested in men who ignore you and mistreat you.
You don’t even think about men who don’t notice you.
You don’t call men who go “poof” and ask them, “What did I do wrong?”
You love being desired, pursued and courted.
You love being treated like a Queen Goddess and no less.
No more waiting, wondering and worrying.
No more lonely Saturday nights!
You follow The Rules to keep yourself emotionally safeguarded and sane.
No more struggle, no more drama, no more pain!
The reward is a loving husband and fairytale come true…
Remember Rule #34: Love only those who love you!
The Strict But Successful Coach
P.S. – Do you have your copy of The Rules yet?
1. All the Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
2. The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace
3. Not Your Mother’s Rules: The New Secrets for Dating
4. The New Rules: Dating Do’s and Don’ts for the Digital Generation