Back from Asia, Back to Blogging!

Dear Rules & Modern Geisha Fans,

I am back from Asia and back to blogging again with delicious stories from my adventures with tons of photos and videos to share.  I have much to say on what I observed about men, women, dating, relationships, Eastern philosophy and the pursuit of love and happiness.  I also have some interesting new perspectives and applications to The Rules when it comes to your Mom and interacting with strange, new people in strange, new places. It has taken me some to readjust from the half day in time difference and to get back into the regular rhythm of blogging again.  But I came home having to catch up with several clients who were anxiously awaiting my return for their consultations after a month-long absence and of course, a cute husband who missed me very much!

Me at the Temple of Literature next to the character for "Virtue."

First of all, this trip Vietnam was an opportunity to take a mother-daughter bonding trip to visit the birthplace of my parents, my ancestors, my culture and tradition. I visited the homes of family members such as uncles, aunts, cousins and distant relatives who I have never met before.  Along with family visits, our trip was a series of  hurried shopping and sight-seeing excursions. Traveling with my Mom was like traveling with bandits!  But at least I still able to enjoy the stunning and raw natural beauty of the country and be able to connect with the beauty of my culture.

Having a treat with Mom at Fanny's Ice Cream in Hanoi.

My favorite place was the charming city of Hanoi, where I felt very much at home.  Just by having conversation with the locals, I got to experience first-hand why Hanoi girls  are simply charming, irresistible and “maddeningly addicting.” (The Modern Geisha’s claim to fame.)

The charming young girls of Hanoi at the Temple of Literature.

I was so lucky to have a friend of mine named Raymond from San Antonio tell me about the Bangkok Salsa Congress.  It just so happened to coincide with my trip to Vietnam, so immediately upon arriving in Saigon on a Friday, I flew out the very next day to Bangkok for the salsa congress that weekend. Even though I was a bit tired from the flight, when I heard the music, I couldn’t resist dancing! I had a wonderful time in Bangkok making new salsa friends, salsa dancing, shopping, eating delicious Thai food and getting pampered with a 3 hour Thai massage!

First night at the Bangkok Salsa Congress with Raymond.

The other reason for the trip was to authenticate my long-awaited Modern Geisha philosophy and doctrine. I have a following of women from all over who excited about the release of the Modern Geisha summary statement, which would define and instruct women on “How to Be a Modern Geisha.”  Because of its roots are deeply based on Asian philosophy, I wanted to experience it and authenticate it on Asian soil.

During a long layover in Japan, I splurged on some cherry-blossom themed souvenirs and went nuts over Hello Kitty Geishas.  I will never be too old for Hello Kitty.

Sakura "Cherry Blossom" themed souvenirs in Japan.
Hello Kitty Geisha. I want one!

I’ve been so busy that I completely forgot about my anniversary date when I officially came out as “The Rule Dating Coach” December 1st.

To commemorate my anniversary as The Rules Dating Coach, I’d like to thank all of my loyal clients, supporters and fans by offering a complimentary audio of my Rules seminar, “Why Men Don’t Call.”

For a limited time only, from December 15, 2011 through January 15, 2012, I am offering my audio to the first 50 people who will do ALL 3 of these steps:

1) Subscribe to my blog at

2) LIKE my fan page at

3) Fill out a form at this link:

This form can also be found on the far left tab of my fan page, The Rules Dating Coach called “Wufoo Form!”

Yours Truly,

Kim, The Modern Geisha

“The Modern Geisha is always moving in a good mood… She is always calm, beautiful, happy, serene, grateful and unperturbed.”

Note:  This is a general philosophy intended for a general audience only. There are rules and exceptions to the rules. I give advice on a case-by-case basis and not cookie-cutter answers. If you have specific questions regarding this matter, please email me at for private a consultation.

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