Male Universe

Masculine Insecurity Is Real

Masculine insecurity is a real issue due to their hardwiring and inner child wounds.

It’s not something you should just write off like, “Oh, he’s just insecure!” and use that to shame men for your relationship problems. So you take the focus off of you and blame it all on them. That is being insensitive, inconsiderate and self-absorbed.

You must learn how to do your part and do it graciously and lovingly. All relationships are your mirror. You don’t live in a vacuum. Men react to your actions. Therefore, how a man treats you tells me how well you are (or not) doing The Rules.

Take responsibility for everything you create in your life because the Divine Feminine leads on an emotional and spiritual level. (Yes, The Rules Books does say that women carry the emotional burden of the relationship, not the man.)

The male ego is ultra sensitive, fragile and should be handled with care. You can help a man feel more secure is by doing The Rules as a daily, consistent way of life in ALL your relationships, not just with men. But mostly on YOURSELF.

A man needs a woman who is sweet, gracious and respectful while standing in her own power, her supreme femininity. Not a loud, bossy, controlling, power-obsessed woman who is disrespectful of his masculinity.

Healthy boundaries, self-control and Holding Your Mood is always classy and ATTRACTIVE.

Doing The Rules brings out the best in you and in your man.

If you are too self-absorbed, emotionally heavy or resentful of men “being men,” then relationships are NOT for you.

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

For advice, please book an appointment by sending a Wufoo Form.

Modern Geisha

Life Strategies for Toxic People

While many people may give the appearance of being nice and friendly to you, deep under the surface, they are covertly toxic and destructive. 

Clients often call me for tactics on how to deal with their endless daily battles with toxic people.

For your own sanity, develop the ability to quickly recognize them and learn how to let them go.

Toxic people can prevent you from reaching your true potential. And they will do it at any cost.

I created the Modern Geisha philosophy to help women develop soul beauty, poise, and supreme femininity throughout their daily walk in life by writing this mantra:

A Modern Geisha is always moving in a good mood… She is always calm, beautiful, serene, happy, grateful and unperturbed.

Therefore, it is crucial to guard your serenity. Never allow anyone or anything to pollute your aura by allowing them to drag you into their emotional chaos.

Toxic people will put you in a bad mood. Walk away. Maintain your frame. So much depends on your ability to hold your mood.

To become a true Modern Geisha, you must embody supreme calmness under stress, elegant thinking, emotional stability, and mature order. This also means having healthy boundaries and the strength to let them go.

Due to the overwhelming amount of fan mail I get from beloved followers who have found my Modern Geisha audios and told me how much it has changed their life, I’m bringing back the Modern Geisha philosophy.

It is a more elegant way of being and a “refined system of education.”

Modern Geisha is the heart and soul of my teachings. It comes from “soul knowledge,” not by a book.

I am currently focusing on redeveloping and strengthening what I started in 2011-2013 when I was a baby coach.

All my best and original material was created back then. Thanks to all my “soul clients” who kept following me and would not let it go.

How to follow my Modern Geisha posts:
MG Facebook Fanpage: https://www.facebook.com/moderngeisha/
MG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moderngeishasecrets/

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

For advice, please book an appointment by sending a Wufoo Form.

Modern Geisha

Copycat vs. Influencer

The world is full of lazy, undisciplined, self-entitled people who just want a free lunch to go. Everyone wants the rewards without doing the work… Or ride the gravy train of “Highly Accomplished People.” It’s human nature. People are predictable.

Someone sent me these social media templates to inform me that another Rules Coach is copying me. It has a striking similarity but a completely different vibe. Definitely not from the same tribe.

Bottom 99% (left) vs. Top 1% (right)

I don’t care if people copy me. It just means they can’t make their next move until I make mine first.

The problem with copying someone like me is that I have a slavishly inhuman work ethic. I am fluid and constantly reinventing myself… I am inimitable.

Which means whoever copies me will always be behind the curve. But at least they have goals.

Here is a testimonial from a young “soul student” yesterday making an astute observation about my practices after listening to two Modern Geisha Mastery audios: Chili Peppers Are Hot, Women Are Jealous and Wu Wei at Work.

She had booked a consult for non-rules related issues like feeling insecure, jealous, and envious of others when it comes to work accomplishments. She was asking me for career advice.

I told her it was natural and to use her feelings in a constructive way to better herself. I assured her that she does not need to feel like a bad person for having these feelings.

She loves the Modern Geisha philosophy. It is a graceful way of life. She feels honored to be among the “vital few” personally mentored by me and wonders how I hold my mood.

Being a Modern Geisha is about sculpting your mind and your life in the pursuit of mastery by becoming an apprentice or disciple.

Dear Mrs. Kim, I just finished listening to the Wu Wei and Chili Pepper audio. It is so relevant to my current situation and feelings. So thankful. ️I am honored to be part of MG teachings…

By giving priority consults to limited and past clients, this shows quality over quantity. Not collecting clients or collecting FB friends like others…

Making sure to give advice that is based on the clients’ personality… And many more! This makes me appreciate you more as my mentor…

I am actually curious personally on how you are able to control your mood.

Modern Geisha Aspirant

How do I control my mood? The quick answer is…

I had the privilege of being trained by my mentor to be in the Top 1%. I only focus on honing my craft and working with the educated elite. I don’t worry what the Bottom 99% is doing. They are irrelevant. But I’m glad my students are smart enough to see the glaringly obvious truth.

(The Top 1% are trend leaders. The Bottom 99% are followers. They are always watching the Top 1% to see what they are doing and may try to copy but lack the ethics to produce Top 1% results.)

When another coach copies me, they are just telling the whole world they are unoriginal, mentally lazy, and AMATEUR.

Most importantly, they think I’m the best. No one copies a loser. Do they?

How can I be angry? I hope everyone copies me.

It’s different from being just a follower because a coach is supposed to be a thought leader. People follow coaches because they have something unique, powerful, and valuable to offer.

A Modern Geisha is a trend leader, not a follower. In Japan, whatever kimono pattern or colors a geisha was seen wearing in season, all the wives would copy and follow. After all, geishas are admired and revered as the “artistic imperial rockstars.”

If people aren’t copying you, it means you’re not doing enough. Get cracking. You’re slacking.

When people copy me, it means I’m RELEVANT.

It tells me that I have successfully influenced the culture.

Any monkey can copy but not everyone can INFLUENCE.

Would you rather be a copycat or an influencer?

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

Work with Kim: Advice by appointment. All questions must be submitted via Wufoo Form.

Modern Geisha

Creating Your Identity

What does “Modern Geisha” mean to you?

A Japanese geisha was highly educated and beautifully groomed to be the perfect companion to the Alpha Male (emperor, feudal lord, samurai) and the imperial ruling class of the Floating World.

I created the Modern Geisha philosophy to help women develop soul beauty, poise, and supreme femininity throughout their daily walk in life.

A Modern Geisha is always moving in a good mood. She is always calm, beautiful, happy, serene, grateful and unperturbed.

-KIM EVAZIANS

As far as I’m concerned, being a Modern Geisha isn’t about dating. It’s about feminine power.

It’s having an elegant code of ethics that will enable you to live a graceful, moral, and dignified way of life.

Getting the ring is once but power is forever…

Please visit my Modern Geisha Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/moderngeisha/

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

How to Work with Kim: Advice by appointment only. Please do not email unless if you are a client and I am requesting information for an upcoming consult. Due to the constant overload of emails, I am unable to answer any questions that are not booked and paid for through my website. To book a consult, please submit a Wufoo form. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter.

Modern Geisha

The Rules Mastery

You cannot master The Rules. Only yourself.

If truth be told, people don’t call me for The Rules. They call me for “How to Be a Modern Geisha.” This has been going on for years even though I don’t talk about it much publicly.

A Modern Geisha ranks among the “educated elite” and has a goddess-like quality that sets her apart from mere mortals. She has been beautifully groomed with ancient feminine wisdom to enrapture the heart of a “Conqueror” (aka The Alpha Male).

6 Fundamental Strategies of a Modern Geisha:
1) Seductive Power
2) Holding Your Mood
3) Fluid Thinking
4) Superior Strategy
5) Elegant Efficiency
6) Self-Mastery

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

How to Work with Kim: Advice by appointment only. Please do not email unless if you are a client and I am requesting information for an upcoming consult. Due to the constant overload of emails, I am unable to answer any questions that are not booked and paid for through my website. To book a consult, please submit a Wufoo form. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter.

Art of Queenliness

Royal in Manner

Be royal in your manner. Act like a Queen to be treated as one. Don’t play the Fool. Never lose your self-respect, graceful composure, and queenly manner. No matter how difficult the situation, never succumb to unseemly or undignified conduct.

“The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated: In the long run, appearing vulgar or common will make people disrespect you… By acting regally and confident of your powers, you make yourself seem destined to wear a crown.” -48 Laws of Power

Have enough self-esteem to master your emotions, hold your mood, and practice patience. Know that everything good will come to you with time. Patience doesn’t come naturally, but neither does power. If you can master this, you can master your fate.

A “Powerful Queen” inspires trust and respect from people by projecting an air of calm confidence and quiet self-assuredness. She leads the crowd with strength, authority, and makes people feel safe.

Don’t be the “Crying Teenager” who is weak, incompetent at solving problems and constantly plagued by petty emotions. For example, emoting on Facebook is not queenly nor is it valuable to anyone. It’s just noise that may cause people to distance themselves from you. Only Fools suffer out loud.

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

How to Work with Kim: Advice by appointment only. Please do not email unless if you are a client and I am requesting information for an upcoming consult. Due to the constant overload of emails, I am unable to answer any questions that are not booked and paid for through my website. To book a consult, please submit a Wufoo form. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter.