Former Rules Breaker Turned Success Story
When you first read The Rules, did you think they were outdated? Ridiculous? Laughable? Did you try to follow them but ended up totally disenchanted and almost gave up?
Eventually, all the other naysayers come to me. I’ve taken the toughest “hard to crack” cases and turned them into amazing success stories. The right mentor can revolutionize your life.
Naysayers are now believers. Rules Breakers are now happily married–and coaching!
For example, Debbie broke every rule. Even the ones not in the book! If you knew her whole story, you might say her case was hopeless. It took a lot of humility, dignity, maturity, and willingness to invest in herself. With patience, coaching, and changing her behavior over time, she got the ring!
Many of you will have a natural rebellion against The Rules. My clients intuitively felt that the Modern Geisha philosophy was more inherently suited to their learning style. Be like water, for water always finds a way.
Even the biggest Rules Breaker can be a success story!
Originally, she did not call me for dating advice. She was already working with another Rules Coach at that time. She called me for work advice! Even though I don’t advertise myself as a career coach.
Incidentally, she found my Modern Geisha audios first e.g. “Hold Your Mood” and “Wu Wei for the Workplace.” After listening to them, applying them and seeing how effective they were at managing her work relationships, she decided to book a consultation with me.
She was already living with her boyfriend for 8 years when she contacted me for her first consult. Within 18 months, she got a proposal which she thought would never happen!
Read her amazing testimony. I laughed out loud when she said she “binge-read” all of my Modern Geisha blogs! LOL…
Debbie said: “When I met my boyfriend 8 years ago, I read The Rules over and over again until it was practically burned into my memory. However, my behavior up until then was the exact opposite of what The Rules advises.
When I read it the first time I thought it was a joke, but then my mind starting working on it and I realized Ellen and Sherrie were right, I could suddenly see all at once why my past relationships had gone awry. But even when I met my boyfriend I struggled, but I probably did 70% better and I always attributed the success of our relationship to The Rules that I did manage to follow! So it was a massive improvement.
But somewhere along the way, I became disenchanted by The Rules (maybe after a couple of years of being with my boyfriend), I thought they were manipulative and gave them up. But I was wrong and early this year I started doing The Rules again along with Kim Evazians’ teachings. I got The Rules at a deeper level, thanks to Kim who inspired me with “Hold Your Mood.”
My reason for telling you this is that my relationship has improved every day since I restarted The Rules. As I said, now you could choose to break them and I certainly broke a lot of them and am practicing improving every day and am in no doubt that I still break them, but when you follow them with the right heart and understand the underlying principles and strategies as Kim puts it rather than tactics you are rewarded with positive outcomes.
I found Kim on The Rules Book website’s list of Certified Rules Coaches back in 2013. I binge-read all of Kim’s blog and found her audios. I think the first one I purchased was ‘Hold Your Mood to Hold Your Man’. Kim’s teachings were very powerful and that came over both in her writing and in her MP3s, I knew I wanted to work with Kim.
The first coaching sessions I had with Kim were work-related. I knew Kim was the one to help me with these work-related issues despite the fact she is a love coach primarily. I purchased Kim’s ‘Wu Wei in the Work Place’ – Kim’s teachings were special, unusual and powerful, I knew she was the coach for me.”
A man will consider you for marriage when you learn how to manage yourself first.
If you want to my next success story, do what Debbie did.