Is it hard for you to walk away from a Lukewarm Suitor who isn’t that into you to begin with?
Is it hard to accept that your Suitor is now a Timewaster?
Is it hard to do “No Contact” with your ex and move on?
It’s hard because we all want it EASY and we want it NOW… Not later.
You are where you are because it’s COMFORTABLE.
There is nothing wrong with that, but it’s deceptively dangerous. When you are comfortable, you cannot change and grow.
You remove the option of upgrading and finding Mr. Right. You stagnate in a mediocre relationship that is unsatisfying but unable to walk away.
When you are comfortable, you tend to stay in “Relationship Limbo.” It’s neither heaven nor hell.
You make bad decisions that create trauma bonding with abusive relationships. This causes even more harm in the long run, emotionally and physically.
Taking the easy way is like making a deal with the devil. It feels good now but there’s a hidden price to pay later.
In fact, you end up paying more than you ever thought. Far more than the price of Rules Consultations with me.
I’ve told countless clients to walk away when the writing is on the wall. This is not the moment to be weak, indecisive and stall.
You must make a critical decision where timing is of the essence. Don’t wait!
I’m not telling you something frivolous, like what shoes to wear for your date.
Here’s what happens…
The ones who listened got the ring.
The ones who did not got dumped.
(Much to their shock!)
You don’t need a crystal ball to know what will happen. Show me what rules you’ve done (or broken) and I’ll show you your future.
Many clients say I’m amazing because of my precise and accurate advice. I just tell people the unsugarcoated truth.
If you want the ring, you must do what is required of you: follow The Rules. Do it without fail, without waffling, and without excuses.
You can choose not to follow The Rules… I won’t go after you… But you don’t get to choose the consequences of breaking them.
These are iron-clad rules from which there is no escape. This is The Law of Sowing and Reaping:
Whatever a woman soweth in her relationships, that which shall she reap.The Bible
My coaching is all about achieving long lasting success by having ethics. Most people are not successful in life because having ethics is hard.
Do what is hard, not what is easy. For lasting success, so much depends on your ability to “Choose your hard.”
To hear more on this, listen to my audio lecture, “Mission CUAO.” The best investment is yourself.
The Strict But Successful Coach
1. All the Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
2. The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace
3. Not Your Mother’s Rules: The New Secrets for Dating
4. The New Rules: Dating Do’s and Don’ts for the Digital Generation
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