Modern Geisha

Effectiveness of Wu Wei

Modern Geisha is not about being a traditional geisha in the literal sense e.g. wearing a kimono, performing traditional Japanese dance, playing the shamisen and high society entertainment.

It is a way of being that will encompass every aspect of your life. It is your spiritual and philosophical beliefs, your etiquette, your family life, your dress, your work, your aesthetic sense and even your recreation.

I created the Modern Geisha philosophy to give women a strong sense of personal identity, culture, structure, balance and purpose in her everyday life.

My Modern Geisha Mastery lectures were designed to help women effectively deal with the roles they play in society with family, friends, bosses, colleagues and romantic partners in a more graceful and elegant manner.

Certain people possess a hidden and unfair advantage in life which enables them to be incredibly successful in business, politics, and relationships. They seemingly have the magical ability to gain without effort.

An important concept of the Modern Geisha philosophy is Wu Wei, which is “action by non-action” or “doing by non-doing.”

This not being lazy, complacent or self-satisfied in doing nothing at all. It is having the wisdom to know when to act and not act. Wu Wei is fluid thinking. Not rigid rules.

The idea is to act less but still act, not to simply not act at all. Acting with moderation and simplicity in mind conserves energy and prevents mistakes that can be avoided. Patience and awareness are valued over speed and focus.

Applied to romance, Wu Wei is “seduction without effort.”

Applied to business transactions or work, it is “effective without doing.”

Applied to politics, it is “ruling without action.”

In our quest for finding love, as with all things in life, we often try too hard and unknowingly chase people away. Trying too hard makes us look desperate, needy, and low value.

Master the art of timing. Be patient. Cut off all unnecessary actions.

Less is elegant.

Be poised. Never seem in a hurry. Be self-assured knowing everything you want will come with time.

Wu Wei is not acting until the time is ripe…

Strike while the iron is hot.

This is the effectiveness of Wu Wei.

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

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Modern Geisha

The Paradox of Feminine Power

Women who struggle with dating must understand that all relationships are exchanges of power.

You cannot ask or demand for power to be given to you.

It is an exchange of energy where something must be given in return. For example, these are forms of energy: time, money, material goods, labor, services or attention.

If you take, you must first give. Everything has a cost. This is the Law of Sowing and Reaping.

You want money? Earn.

You want knowledge? Study.

You want mastery? Train.

You want respect? Be respectful.

You want to be Queen? Serve.

You want power? Submit.

You want him to fall madly in love with you? (I teach this art in private MG lessons. This is my craft.)

True power is letting the other person believe they have total control.

This is how Modern Geishas became the wealthiest, most educated, most glamorous, and most respected women in the Japanese culture.

They figured out long ago that the best way to gain power is by giving it away.

Feminine power is like water: soft, fluid, and formless.

Water does not strive against Nature, it flows with the current.

The paradox of feminine power is being patient and passive. Not power-seeking or interested in control.

It runs parallel to the Wu Wei paradox: “to rule without effort.”

Wu Wei is accomplishing by non-action. Without effort. Without excessive struggle.

Trying too hard ruins everything. It is not seductive. It repels what you want.

If you remain neutral and uncontrived, even the elements will bend to your will.

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

How to Work with Kim: Advice by appointment only. Please do not email unless if you are a client and I am requesting information for an upcoming consult. Due to the constant overload of emails, I am unable to answer any questions that are not booked and paid for through my website. To book a consult, please submit a Wufoo form. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter.

Modern Geisha

Creating Your Identity

What does “Modern Geisha” mean to you?

A Japanese geisha was highly educated and beautifully groomed to be the perfect companion to the Alpha Male (emperor, feudal lord, samurai) and the imperial ruling class of the Floating World.

I created the Modern Geisha philosophy to help women develop soul beauty, poise, and supreme femininity throughout their daily walk in life.

A Modern Geisha is always moving in a good mood. She is always calm, beautiful, happy, serene, grateful and unperturbed.

-KIM EVAZIANS

As far as I’m concerned, being a Modern Geisha isn’t about dating. It’s about feminine power.

It’s having an elegant code of ethics that will enable you to live a graceful, moral, and dignified way of life.

Getting the ring is once but power is forever…

Please visit my Modern Geisha Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/moderngeisha/

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

How to Work with Kim: Advice by appointment only. Please do not email unless if you are a client and I am requesting information for an upcoming consult. Due to the constant overload of emails, I am unable to answer any questions that are not booked and paid for through my website. To book a consult, please submit a Wufoo form. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter.

Modern Geisha

The Rules Mastery

You cannot master The Rules. Only yourself.

If truth be told, people don’t call me for The Rules. They call me for “How to Be a Modern Geisha.” This has been going on for years even though I don’t talk about it much publicly.

A Modern Geisha ranks among the “educated elite” and has a goddess-like quality that sets her apart from mere mortals. She has been beautifully groomed with ancient feminine wisdom to enrapture the heart of a “Conqueror” (aka The Alpha Male).

6 Fundamental Strategies of a Modern Geisha:
1) Seductive Power
2) Holding Your Mood
3) Fluid Thinking
4) Superior Strategy
5) Elegant Efficiency
6) Self-Mastery

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

How to Work with Kim: Advice by appointment only. Please do not email unless if you are a client and I am requesting information for an upcoming consult. Due to the constant overload of emails, I am unable to answer any questions that are not booked and paid for through my website. To book a consult, please submit a Wufoo form. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter.

Art of Queenliness

The Consummate Tease

The key to texting is light and witty banter and keeping them enthralled. When a guy asks a question, it’s an opportunity to create the chase he craves.

The way you build attraction is to maintain a bit of mystery, hope, and sexual tension.

If he asks, “Can you tell me more about yourself?”, never get defensive or show that you are annoyed or irritated. It’s not cool, suave or seductive as the first impression.

I would say, “Of course. I’m an open book…” in a relaxed and queenly manner.

Let him wonder, “What’s in that book?”

(Yes, through texting men can sense your vibes and lack of confidence.)

Use metaphors to give yourself a poetic presence and leave him fantasizing about you for the rest of the day.

The less you say, the more he can fill in his fantasy with delightful visions of you.

Less is elegant.

I am “The Consummate Tease,” inviting them to intermittent plays of hot and cold interaction. Allow them to feel genuine warmth and flirtation with a bit of frustration.

There is no lukewarm with me. Love me to distraction or not at all.

Men love to be teased, even tortured, if there is the “promise of pleasure.”

This does not mean sleeping with him but you can create the desire and feed it. You are always in control of your delivery.

Men don’t want you to give in too soon. That’s what makes you a painfully delicious catch!

If you are too self-absorbed with no humor then you have no chance at making him maddeningly addicted and totally enslaved.

Master the art of being the “Consummate Tease” and he is under your spell.

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

How to Work with Kim: Advice by appointment only. Please do not email unless if you are a client and I am requesting information for an upcoming consult. Due to the constant overload of emails, I am unable to answer any questions that are not booked and paid for through my website. To book a consult, please submit a Wufoo form. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter.

Art of Queenliness

Royal in Manner

Be royal in your manner. Act like a Queen to be treated as one. Don’t play the Fool. Never lose your self-respect, graceful composure, and queenly manner. No matter how difficult the situation, never succumb to unseemly or undignified conduct.

“The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated: In the long run, appearing vulgar or common will make people disrespect you… By acting regally and confident of your powers, you make yourself seem destined to wear a crown.” -48 Laws of Power

Have enough self-esteem to master your emotions, hold your mood, and practice patience. Know that everything good will come to you with time. Patience doesn’t come naturally, but neither does power. If you can master this, you can master your fate.

A “Powerful Queen” inspires trust and respect from people by projecting an air of calm confidence and quiet self-assuredness. She leads the crowd with strength, authority, and makes people feel safe.

Don’t be the “Crying Teenager” who is weak, incompetent at solving problems and constantly plagued by petty emotions. For example, emoting on Facebook is not queenly nor is it valuable to anyone. It’s just noise that may cause people to distance themselves from you. Only Fools suffer out loud.

Kim Evazians
The Strict But Successful Coach

How to Work with Kim: Advice by appointment only. Please do not email unless if you are a client and I am requesting information for an upcoming consult. Due to the constant overload of emails, I am unable to answer any questions that are not booked and paid for through my website. To book a consult, please submit a Wufoo form. Thank you for your cooperation in this matter.