Modern Geisha is not about being a traditional geisha in the literal sense e.g. wearing a kimono, performing traditional Japanese dance, playing the shamisen and high society entertainment.
It is a way of being that will encompass every aspect of your life. It is your spiritual and philosophical beliefs, your etiquette, your family life, your dress, your work, your aesthetic sense and even your recreation.
I created the Modern Geisha philosophy to give women a strong sense of personal identity, culture, structure, balance and purpose in her everyday life.
My Modern Geisha Mastery lectures were designed to help women effectively deal with the roles they play in society with family, friends, bosses, colleagues and romantic partners in a more graceful and elegant manner.
Certain people possess a hidden and unfair advantage in life which enables them to be incredibly successful in business, politics, and relationships. They seemingly have the magical ability to gain without effort.
An important concept of the Modern Geisha philosophy is Wu Wei, which is “action by non-action” or “doing by non-doing.”
This not being lazy, complacent or self-satisfied in doing nothing at all. It is having the wisdom to know when to act and not act. Wu Wei is fluid thinking. Not rigid rules.
The idea is to act less but still act, not to simply not act at all. Acting with moderation and simplicity in mind conserves energy and prevents mistakes that can be avoided. Patience and awareness are valued over speed and focus.
Applied to romance, Wu Wei is “seduction without effort.”
Applied to business transactions or work, it is “effective without doing.”
Applied to politics, it is “ruling without action.”
In our quest for finding love, as with all things in life, we often try too hard and unknowingly chase people away. Trying too hard makes us look desperate, needy, and low value.
Master the art of timing. Be patient. Cut off all unnecessary actions.
Less is elegant.
Be poised. Never seem in a hurry. Be self-assured knowing everything you want will come with time.
Wu Wei is not acting until the time is ripe…
Strike while the iron is hot.
This is the effectiveness of Wu Wei.
The Strict But Successful Coach
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